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What to Do First When Someone Dies

When a loved one passes away, the moments that follow can feel overwhelming and confusing. Knowing what to do first is crucial. This guide offers a compassionate roadmap to help you through the immediate aftermath of loss.

Burial

Which to Choose: Burial or Cremation?

Deciding between cremation and burial can be a deeply personal choice, influenced by various factors. With the cremation rate in the U.S. nearly doubling in recent years, many are exploring the benefits. Which one is right for you?

Eulogy

How to Write a Eulogy

Being asked to write a eulogy for a loved one can feel overwhelming, but it’s an opportunity to share your unique relationship and honor their memory. You don’t need to be a professional writer; a eulogy is simply telling the story of your connection.

Guidelines

What to Write in a Sympathy Note

Expressing sympathy can be difficult for many of us, but it’s important to reach out to loved ones during their time of grief. A simple note or card can make a big difference and help them in their healing process. Learn what to write (and what not to write) in a sympathy note, as well as when and how to send it.

Eulogy

How to Write An Obituary

We’ve all seen traditional obituaries that focus on names and achievements, but writing one can be tough emotionally. Instead of following the usual format, think about how your loved one lived. Were they adventurous, funny, or poetic? Remember their unique qualities and memories to make a heartfelt tribute.

Etiquette

Choosing Sympathy Flowers Based on Color Meaning

Choosing sympathy flowers is meaningful. Each color has a unique message. White lilies mean purity, while purple irises represent regret and sympathy. Express your condolences by personalizing an arrangement.

Burial

The Complete Guide to Burials

Losing a loved one is challenging, and planning the burial can be stressful. Whether you choose burial or cremation, understanding the steps is crucial. This guide will assist you in selecting a cemetery and plot, simplifying the process.

Funeral

What to Wear to a Funeral

What you should wear to a funeral can be confusing. Our six guidelines will help you show respect without drawing attention. From religious services to out-of-town burials, we’ve got you covered.

Children

Should Children Attend Funerals?

How can you determine if your child is emotionally prepared to attend a funeral service? If depends on their age and maturity level. Here are some steps to take to prepare them.

Cremation

The Complete Guide to Cremation

Discover the many aspects of cremation. From the necessary process to the associated costs and various options for ashes, we’ll guide you through it all.

Guides

The Complete Guide to Memorial Services

Planning a memorial service can be daunting during a time of loss, but it also allows you to honor a loved one’s life. This guide will help you through the process, from picking the right time to adding meaningful themes and decorations.

Grief

Why You Should Acknowledge Someone’s Loss

It’s important to acknowledge someone’s loss. Mention the deceased by name, reach out proactively, listen without giving advice, show understanding by sharing personal experiences, and offer support through gestures of kindness.

Facebook

Navigating Grief Online

Here are some thoughtful tips and guidance on how to appropriately announce a death on social media platforms, as well as meaningful ways to memorialize a Facebook page dedicated to the individual’s memory.

Grief

Memories and Grief on Memorial Day

Memorial Day can be a difficult time for those grieving a loved one, often feeling more like a day to endure than to celebrate. As we enjoy cookouts and the start of summer, the weight of loss may overshadow the festivities. This article offers insights into honoring your loved ones while managing your grief. Discover meaningful ways to remember them through stories, personal rituals, or quiet reflection. Make this day your own.

Grief

Remembering Dad on Father’s Day

For those whose fathers are no longer with them, Father’s Day can stir up mixed emotions, including fond memories as well as grief that he is no longer here.

Grief

6 Ideas to Help You Cope with Grief at Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving can be particularly challenging when grieving a loved one. The conflicting emotions can be overwhelming. It’s ok to feel both joy and sadness at the same time. Here are ways to help you cope.

Grief

A Guide for Coping with Grief at the Holidays

Grief isn’t a place where you unpack and settle down permanently. Instead, it’s a process that continually evolves and shifts with time. There is no “right” way to navigate it. Find what works best for you during the holiday season.

Grief

How to Support Someone Who’s Grieving During the Holidays

The holiday season can be particularly tough for those grieving. Your support can make a significant difference. From simply listening to acknowledging their loss, there are meaningful ways to show you care. Read on for practical tips and heartfelt suggestions.

Christmas

Grief & The Holidays

You are an individual. And your grief process is your own. How to set boundaries and navigate grief during the holidays.

Christmas

The First Christmas After a Loss

December is different this year for my husband and his siblings as they face their first holiday season without their mother, Louise. The weight of loss is felt during gatherings and cherished traditions. Yet, amidst the grief, there’s an opportunity to create new traditions that honor their loved ones and allow for joy.

Guides

How to Keep Your New Year’s Resolutions

Whether it’s getting in shape, learning a new skill, or cultivating better habits, setting goals for a new year is a tradition that dates back thousands of years. However, studies show that only a fraction of these resolutions are successfully kept.